Just so thankful...

...I know I'm not satisfied with the sex with my man, too little and not enough quality all the time. But today I felt this rush of love for him, when talking to him on the phone (we have long-distance relationship which doesn't make it easier). He may have his faults and strange behaviours at times, but who doesn't? I long for him when I'm not with him and that must count for something! Right? And he's always there for me when I need him. Hopefully I can overlook the fact that we don't match a hundred percent sexually and still feel fulfilled. I DO want this to work... I DO!


Love you babe...

Excuses For Not Having Sex...

It's common knowledge, or perhaps it's a myth, but an excuse women is said to use when not feeling up for sex is: "Not tonight baby, I've got a headache!". I've never experienced this myself, that I've had to use this as an excuse. In fact I don't think I've ever turned down sex. If I DO have a headache I'd still have sex, if offered ;-), and it may seem like magic, but I forget all about my headache for a while and sometimes it even goes away...

Otherwise, try giving your man or woman a nice, sensual massage and the headache may pack its bags and leave the bedroom...

The World Orbits Around Sex!

At least my world... sex, sex, sex... in periods, all I seem to think about is sex. And No, I'm not a man, I'm a female in her late twenties just mad about SEX. And at the moment, I'm finding myself in a position where I'm obsessed. The reason to that is my man who doesn't have the same urge as I do... I've made up all possible resaons for that; he's tired/allergic, he's gay, he's taking some sort of medicine which takes his lust away, he's jerking off instead 'cause it's easier, he's been raised to feel ashamed about the whole sex part (which I know is not true, 'cause when he really makes an effort he's great in bed), he's been working to hard, he's having an affair... and so on...

After reading a erotic novel about an hour ago I had to take my rabbit for another ride... but do the itch ever go away? Afraid not...

My Dear Mr Rabbit...

...and I spent the night together, leaving me satisfied when it comes to the sex part, but it would have been nice with the feeling of another body, the warmth, the love, the tension and finally the safe and always comforting arms around me before I fell asleep... My Mr Rabbit has problem with showing emotions if you know what I mean. ;-) I found it in an Ann Summers shop and I just HAD to bring him back home! Haha...

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I'm Sexually Famished...

...and HOW, can one ask oneself, is that possible when having a boyfriend? Well... it IS possible, believe me! If I could have my way I would have sex at least once a day... more if offered. And I don't mind being a little crazy, having sex outside, perhaps giving my man a blowjob at the beach, having sex on the washing machine (in the public washer room, mind you! Haha).

BUT, I am NOT having my way. I have to demand sex if I want to get some action and frankly...my self-esteem when it comes to sex has diminished quite a lot during the last couple of months. He doesn't want to have sex as often as I do and sometimes even though he has a hard-on, he doesn't want to do anything about it. Is he worth all the effort? I mean, sex is quite an important part of a relationship. At least that is what I think. One positive side effect of this though is that I finally found something positive about my ex boyfriend. We had great sex for seven years, everywhere, anywhere, anytime... kind of miss that sponataneous feeling...

What shall I do...